Dear friends,
Hello, and happy December! If you're in the U.S., I hope your Thanksgiving was very happy. Now the holiday season is officially upon us!
I remember well a Christmas years ago when we squeezed three complete family celebrations into a single day. (I bet some of you have done this, too!)
I prepared food for our own Christmas morning, the mid-day meal with my extended family, and the evening dinner with my husband’s extended family.
Coolers, presents, and stocking stuffers were schlepped around town, on icy roads that added several white knuckle drives to the day.
It was wonderful being with family, and I wouldn’t have missed any of it.
But boy, was I tuckered out. Then my immune system protested, and I was sick for the next week! Has that ever happened to you?
I’ve learned that I don’t do well with back-to-back festivities, trying to be everywhere, do everything, and squeeze in too much.
Now, whenever possible, I build in some down time between holiday events.
Putting some Xs on the calendar for quiet breaks instantly makes me feel more relaxed.
Preserving some precious time for our family to slow down and enjoy the season gives us more energy for the parties and festivities.
Here are some strategies if you, too, want to find ways to enjoy this December without getting worn out.
5 Ways to Add Balance to Your Holidays
1. Schedule Time for Recharging
X out some blocks of time on your calendar, and treat your downtime like an appointment. For instance:
- A weekend afternoon to watch your favorite Christmas movie.
- An evening walk or drive to look at neighborhood holiday lights.
- An hour in the morning to read under a cozy blanket.
2. Create Small Moments of Joy
You might try:
- Lighting a candle that smells like pine or gingerbread.
- Listening to your favorite holiday playlist while making a meal.
- Taking an afternoon tea break by the Christmas tree.
3. Batch Your Holiday Tasks
Focus on one thing per day, for instance:
- Monday: wrapping gifts
- Wednesday: planning and shopping for the dinner menu
- Friday: figuring out stocking stuffers
4. Choose Easy Food
Simplify with some stress-free options:
- Crockpot meals (perfect for cozy winter evenings!)
- Simple charcuterie boards or breakfast boards
- Store-bought shortcuts for parties
5. Plan One Thing That's Just for You
Pick something that sparks joy for you, such as:
- A holiday craft night with friends
- Visiting a festive holiday market
- Attending a Christmas movie or play
- Meeting a friend for a cozy lunch
How About You?
How do you create space and time to enjoy this special time of year?
Drop me a note at elizagcross@gmail.com. I'd love to hear and share your stories.
Here's to a little more balance during these beautiful December days,
